Sometimes it seems that the man we love
doesn't pay enough attention to us or doesn't love us enough. How to get
how make the guy we love is therefore importance as that will make us enjoy our
relationship. It is true that you can’t
“force” a man to love you; of course, there are ways to strengthen feelings and
get him to love.
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There
are things men like but wouldn’t say or show it. Who does not love to be
pampered a little? I mean being pampered completely without a reason? It
may not happen that often, but when it does, it gives one a huge smile and he
is filled with joy and gratitude. Your guy will certainly appreciate being
surprised by you - whether it is a small, modest gesture in everyday life, or
that you arrange the big thing to make him happy.
In
this blog we will be highlighting about 15 secrets, ideas and ways to get a man
love you more than ever before.
Be Well-groomed and Tidy
Get rid of peeling nail polish, messy hair and
tights with arrows. A man will want to be next to a well-groomed and tidy
woman. Also, pay attention to your clothes: throw out your grandmother's
coats and mom's old boots, or better yet, update your wardrobe. Look and appear
good.
Sometimes, put your favorite red lipsticks to
grab his attention. You may have heard it
before. Men love nice, red lipstick. A study shows that men in
particular are attracted to red lips. Then put on the beautiful red color
the next time you go on a date! The study also shows that red lips help
hold men's attention for an extra long time. This
will have an effect on your partner
Show More Respect and Interest
"Be attentive", "listen to a
man", "appreciate him" - these tips seem banal at first
glance. But sensitivity and insight, of course, are necessary for every
person, and the psychologist assures that this is important in any
relationship.
Be your man's friend. Show that you are
willing to listen and understand. Yes, even if you are not interested in
football, you should not yawn when he talks about the next grand game. Of
course, you don’t need to adapt to your partner at all, but let him see that
you respect and appreciate his point of view. Then he will be even more
imbued with feelings for you, - the psychologist emphasized.
Get Him Gifts
There is nothing better than getting gifts you did not expect
to receive. Surprise, surprise! That is how he will feel. Look for one
those fanciful things or ceremonies that can make him feel like ‘wow’. You can list tickets for a new stand-up
show, the cinema or a concert with his favorite band down in his jacket pocket
on a gray and cold Monday morning. Then there is a guarantee that he will
be surprised and happy when he has to warm his hands at the bus stop. Make sure the concert
tickets are felt as something important when he puts his hands in his pocket. It's
not so smart if they end up in a trash can at the bus stop.
Hold a Surprise Party for
Him
Look
for a way to celebrate him as that will go a long way to show and proof to him
how much you love him. You can organize a surprise birthday party, inviting his
friends as you celebrate him. I bet you, he cannot forget that honour in haste. It
will remind him how much you mean to him.
Ensure he does not think it is tiring to be the
center of the party instead of having a quiet evening on the couch. You
know him best, so think about whether he's the type who would love a surprise
party.
Know How to Make a Man Laugh
The one with whom it is fun and funny is
always more popular than the one who always remains serious.
There is a joke: "Winning a girl's heart
is not so difficult. You need to know only three things: pity, pamper and make
you laugh." Perhaps this can be applied to men. Try to understand
words and things that make him laugh and give it to him as that could reduce
tension and stress.
Give Him Small
Declarations of Love
Surprise
him with small declarations of love in everyday life. For example, you could
put an 'I love you,' post it on his computer, draw a heart
with raisins in his oatmeal in the morning, or put a lipstick kiss on the
mirror. Although he is a big and strong man, he also wants to be confirmed
in that you love him and think he is nice.
Compliment Him
A kind word is pleasant for every person, and
hearing it from a beloved woman is doubly pleasant.
Many men hold back their emotions and at the
same time want to hear confirmation of their "high status" from a
woman. It is difficult for them to voice their thoughts, so compliments
are a balm for the soul,
Don't Blame Him
"Why are you so inattentive?",
"Why don't you dust?", "Why are you throwing dirty laundry all
over the apartment?" - these questions cause discomfort in any
person. They sound like an accusation and clearly demonstrate your
annoyance. Better ask the question from a different angle. For
example, instead of "Why didn't you make your bed?" say:
"I'm sorry that you didn't make the bed as we agreed. Are you in a hurry somewhere?" It
no longer sounds so accusatory and at the same time expresses your
emotions. True, you should not abuse sarcasm, be sincere, - the
psychologist emphasized.
Find Your Inner Nurse
We
know very well that pathetic men who think they are going to die of a small
cold are not very attractive. But still find your inner nurse - maybe even
with the accompanying nursing uniform (it might spice him up a bit
...). Rent all his favorite movies, make hot milk with honey and let him
be pathetic. We all need a little maternal care when we have an off -
day.
Strip for Him
Put
on great music, wiggle your hips, undress slowly and give him a lap
dance. Men are visual creatures, so your man should probably get stars in
his eyes if you give him a private strip show. Remember to draw the
curtains as the strip show is only for your friend and not all the neighbors.
Be His Massage Girl
When
your boyfriend comes home tired and exhausted from work, he will probably
appreciate relaxing completely while giving him a full body massage. Massage
his entire body from the toes to the fingertips and scalp.
To
create an extra relaxing atmosphere for both of you, you can spice it up with
lit candles, de-stressing music and good massage oil - and then you can give
him the best, lovely message ever.
Break Up Sometimes
When people are around all the time, it starts
to become boring, the couple gets used to each other; there is a routine in the
relationship.
“After a long separation, meetings become more
pleasant and tender, because people have time to get bored,” the expert
says. However, this does not mean that parting should happen too often
Set a Minor Quarrel
Quarrel? Oh yes! quarrels and swearing are unpleasant. But
at the same time, it is normal for any couple, for any family.
After
the first major quarrel, a man tries to understand if he needs this
relationship, if he wants to work on it. And the understanding that a man
wants to fight for you comes precisely after the first serious
squabble. Moreover, the feeling strengthens the knowledge that both of you
are ready to fight, - said the specialist.
Show Off Your Independence
Women's independence is often full of
stereotypes. "A strong and independent woman" is presented in
popular culture as a lonely cat lady with gray hair on her temples.
“However, women who do not put relationships
in the first place, striving to succeed in their profession and develop
themselves, arouse interest and respect in men more than those who are
dependent on their beloved girl,” the psychologist assures.
Give Him a Blowjob
We
know it's a cheap trick - but it works! It does not always have to take
place in bed. Try pulling his pants off while he is doing the dishes or
when he is sitting on the couch watching a football game. Spontaneous
blowjobs in unexpected situations will definitely give you points on the
'world's best girlfriend' scale. Football blowjob should not be performed when
your boyfriend is watching football with the boys. It's probably also a
good idea that you have just familiarized yourself with how important a
football match is. It is not certain that your friend will be super
excited to miss the crucial goal in the World Cup final.
Clap His Back
Give
him a loving pat on the butt when you stand in line at Netto. Braid
fingers with him on the street, give him a kiss on the bus or give his thighs a
hug when you are at a family birthday. Small loving touches show that you
think he is naughty and that you are not afraid to show the outside world that
you have the most delicious guy. It makes him proud. You do not have to
show the outside world how much you want him.
Don't Take Him for Granted
People who have been with someone for a long
time, over time, take their loved ones for granted. Time is another test
of strength in a relationship.
Think more often why you fell in love with
your man. Maybe he always knows how to distract you after a busy day at
work, or maybe your man is a great football player. And, of course, remind
him of this. However, be careful: if you
think about it and talk about it too much, it will start to bother you.
“If a man says he loves you, and his words are
backed up by actions, then you can trust him,” the psychologist concludes.
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